November 21, 2021 was Mother's 109th birthday. I gave her a special present as I spoke, on her birthday, at the Emigration Stake Conference. My theme was "How to Use Past Spiritual Experiences to Gain More Faith". I told about both Mother and Father in my talk, and about my faith-inspiring experiences with them.
“I will remember this
experience all my life,” I told David as I walked into the Assembly Hall on Temple Square, where our stake conferences are held. It was a thrill to speak from the same
podium used by high Church leaders for generations. As I recall, the funeral for my Aunt Camilla,
Uncle Spencer’s wife, was held here.
I had carefully written
and repeatedly practiced and timed my talk, and I didn’t feel scared at all as
I spoke to the huge crowd before me. I
later described the thrill of that experience, as I “performed” the emotional speech in the huge, fully-packed hall, as like Martin Luther King must have felt in giving his “I Have a
Dream” speech. I could feel the audience intently listening, and I half expected them to chant back to
me, “Amen, Sister!” When I finished, my brother, Scott,
who was sitting on the front row, gave me a thumbs up sign.
I also appreciated the support
of Dave, Mike, and Lisa, who were sitting right up front. I saw Jonny walk into the balcony with
Sam and Henry, as Stake Conference began, and I saw them slip out after I
finished speaking. I applauded Jonny's efforts in keeping his wiggly boys on the wood benches for long enough to hear me! I also completely supported Camille in attending her own ward, after she had been out of town in Boston for so long. President Pickett and President Brown, of our stake presidency, said that my description of my father's very practical faith reminded them of themselves. Both of them are University of Utah professors, as my father was. Over the next couple of
days, I received a number of requests for copies of the talk, even from people
I didn’t know.I hosted a birthday party
for Mother this afternoon. Camille’s family came, as did
Jonny and his family, Mike and his family, Grant and Meg, Michael K, Lisa,
Kyle, Alyssa, Bryce, Kirsten, and Kirsten’s friend, Diana. “This is Grandma Rose’s ham dinner,” I
said. We had corn soup, triscuit
crackers with melted cheese, ham, consommé rice, sweet potatoes with apples,
and, of course, green jello salad.
Scott and Jean and Scott Jr.’s family joined us for dessert
and the slide show. With Michael’s help,
I put together pictures of my mother’s and father’s lives together, from their
engagement through Mom’s retirement from BYU, when she was 62. Scott and I told
family stories as the photos rolled. “I
learned lots of things I didn’t know,” Emilie said when the program ended.