Wednesday, July 26, 2017

The Spendlove Swim Party

 It's a very fun mini-reunion.  Once a year we rent the Northcrest Swimming Pool for a swim party and potluck dinner for our family and Dave's sisters and brother and their families.  The potluck doesn't work so well.  Some years we have just entrees and some years just salads and desserts.  This year, on July 13, 2017, Dave's sister, Janice, and I each brought an array of dishes--entree, salad, fruit, and dessert.  With everyone else's offerings, we had a feast!
The big news at the reunion was that Janice's son, Ben, recently returned from a mission to the Philippines, is marrying his long-time girlfriend, Brittany, on August 26.
Janice's son, Daniel, will be moving from Texas to SLC this summer with his bride, Chelsea.  All of Janice's children will then be living in Utah.  Janice just needs to get her husband, Mark, home from his job as a flight controller in Afghanistan!
Janice's daughter, Charlotte, has two cute sons, Jet and Dax, and is expecting her third child in a few months.
We were delighted that Jenny could join us with Henry and Sam.  They return to Florida tomorrow, after nearly three weeks visiting relatives in SLC.
 Sam didn't want to talk with his Grandma, but he did give me a high five and, before he left, a goodbye kiss!
 Alan Dale introduced his fiance, Shauna, to the family.

 Dave's sister, Nancy, is still in Nauvoo on a mission, so we were particularly pleased that so many of Nancy's children and grandchildren attended the party without their mom around to urge them to do it!  Jill and Brent came with their daughter, Jessica, and Jane came with her son, Jackson.
 Nancy's son, Jacob, now has two babies.  Jacob is a salesman with one of Utah's many medical equipment start-ups, and he's loving it.  "They made me a vice president," he exulted.  "I'm not over many people, but I am a vice president!"

Jacob's wife, Melissa, cuddled their son, who looks exactly like Jacob!
Megan is the wife of Jared, Nancy's son.  She is a sunny, capable person who is now serving in a Relief Society presidency in her ward.  Megan brought her mother to the party, who lives in Winnipeg, Canada.
Jared had his hands full with swim wings, towels, and his little daughter.  Jared got a degree in film from BYU and now helps direct one of the series produced for BYU TV.
Dave and I divide up the work of hosting the swim party.  He reserves the pool, advertises the party, and brings drinks and plates.  I make sure there is a variety of good food.  It worked out well this year.  The party was just great.  "Let's do it in July again next year," Janice said.
We're glad she's assuming there's a next time!

With Kent and Toshiko

My brother, Kent, and his wife, Toshiko, visited us during the week of July 12 to 19, 2017.  We gathered some relatives--Scott and Jean, Michael, and Jenny--on the evening of July 13 to celebrate. Kent and Toshiko are extremely interesting people, and the conversation flowed all evening.  (See Mike in the background of this photo, talking with animation to Kent). 
Kent and Toshiko came laden with gifts, including a beautiful piece of Japanese lacquer from Toshiko, and Kent's latest, 10th book, "Circles of Compensation."  Kent is director of East Asian studies as SAIS, the Washington D.C. public policy center for John Hopkins University.

Kent recently spent several months teaching in Singapore, and wrote "Singapore: Smart City, Smart State," which I also want to read.

Toshiko is interested in refugee services, and so Toshiko, Kent, and I spent the afternoon of July 13 exploring what Utah is doing to host its refugees.  We spent an hour with my friend, Ze Min Xiao, director of Salt Lake County's Office for New Americans and Refugees, who described how she seeks for gaps in existing federal and state programs and tries to fill them.  She also runs programs that help refugees raise and sell produce from their home countries at farmer's markets, and a goat program in which Somali refugees raise goats and sell their meat.
Next stop was Salt Lake City's new Chinatown.  It includes an Asian martial arts training center, travel agencies, and a huge Asian supermarket.




We wandered through the produce section of the market, noting the unusual fruits and vegetables.

The store even sold durian, the "stinky fruit" from Asia.

We visited Cannon Greens, the community garden in Glendale, a refugee area, where I have a plot.  I pointed out the plots farmed by Burundi refugees, which have a distinctive layout of corn, interlaced with beans and squash.  The Burundians know how to get maximum nutrition from each square foot of their gardens.
Kent and Toshiko then left for a trip to Southern Utah and Arizona, including spots, such as the Grand Canyon, which Toshiko had never seen.  When Toshiko and Kent returned to SLC, on July 19, I was fascinated to hear a blow-by-blow account of their trip.  They certainly know how to travel! First stop was Fillmore, Utah's first State Capitol.  They visited the little museum there, and saw a display on the ancestors of the prominent Huntsman family, who came from Fillmore.  I have never visited that museum and didn't know that the Huntsmans are from Fillmore!

John Huntsman Sr. amassed a fortune through his Huntsman Chemical Company and is a major donor to Utah's distinguished Huntsman Cancer Hospital.  His son, John Huntsman Jr., was Utah's governor, ran for US president, and has just been appointed ambassador to Russia by President Trump.
Kent and Toshiko spent a night at our St. George house and then spent the next night in a cabin on the North Rim of the Grand Canyon.
They took a mule ride to Bright Angel Point, below the rim of the Grand Canyon.
On the way back to SLC, they visited the site of Topaz, a Japanese internment camp during World War II.


They also visited the new Topaz Museum in Delta, Utah.
 On the evening of July 19, we invited my cousins, Bob and Judy Edwards, to come to our home and visit with Kent and Toshiko.  Bob and Judy are two of my favorite people, and Kent and Toshiko seemed to enjoy them very much.  Bob and Judy were LDS Church service missionaries in Romania several years ago, which interested Kent and Toshiko.
 Bob is a son of Kent's and my Aunt Catherine, Mother's sister, and Uncle Bill.
We told family stories about Aunt Catherine and Uncle Bill and Kent's and my parents.  We also talked about Hiroshima.  Toshiko was born four days after the bomb was dropped on Hiroshima, and one of Bob's early memories was of the bombing of Hiroshima.  He said he broke into tears when he heard about it.
Toshiko and Kent are a distinguished, interesting couple, as well as beloved family.  It was a treat to spend time with them.

Mia's Confirmation

Mia Ebert turned eight on May 25.  She was baptized in Lake Titicaca, during her family's recent trip to Bolivia to help build a school with a Choice Humanitarian project.  On June 11, 2017, she was confirmed a member of the LDS Church at her parents' home.
The men in the family who hold the Melchezidek Priesthood gathered in a circle around Mia as her father, Steve, confirmed her a member of the Church, gave her the gift of the Holy Ghost, and gave her a father's blessing.
 We shared a big dinner to celebrate that Mia is now a member of the Church.  She got to eat dinner off the red, "You are special today" plate.

 The Eberts and Spendloves joined forces to produce the feast.
 Al Ebert is always a delight !
Proud mother of the new Church member.



 Alan Dale and Shauna announced that they are engaged!  Alan Dale has been lonely since his divorce a year ago and Shauna has been lonely since her husband died three years ago, so we are very happy that they found each other.

Encore

Never say never.  The best hike at Glacier, to Mike, is the Highline Trail.  Last Wednesday, Mike's hiking group was blocked by snow and couldn't get there.  Today, July 8, 2017, the trail was open, and Mike, Spencer, Naomi, and Bryce climbed its glorious reaches.  "It's as long as the Mt. Timpanogas trail, but not as strenuous," Mike reported.  Mike and his team then took the St. Mary's Falls hike Dave and I took yesterday, and they walked a mile farther, to Victoria Falls.  Heidi spent the day in Whitefish and Kalispell with Lisa, Kirsten, Alyssa, Dave, and me, visiting shops, galleries, a farmer's market, and a Victorian mansion.












 St. Mary's Falls

 Victoria Falls


Back in Whitefish, Dave, Lisa, Kirsten, Alyssa, Heidi, and I had a fun day exploring downtown Whitefish and Kalispell.

We wandered through art galleries, with works based on Western themes.  Kirsten confided that she especially likes art featuring buffalos!  There were plenty of buffalo pieces to choose from in Whitefish, and bear art, as well.

We rummaged through the Farmer's Market, with Dave and I buying a photograph of Lake Grinnel, in Many Glaciers, to remind us of the Reunion.
 We stopped at Sweet Peaks, a gourmet ice cream shop which may open a branch in SLC.
 The flavors were refreshing and unique.

 And we toured the fascinating Conrad Mansion in Kalispell.  It was built in 1895 by a Montana pioneer who made his fortune in railroads and banking.
 The mansion had 23 room, and the latest in turn-of-the-century technology--intercoms, a dishwasher (soapy and then clean water poured through a cabinet holding dirty dishes), washing machine, and even an indoor barbecue grill.
When the hikers arrived at the condo, we had one last spaghetti dinner, finished off the ice cream, and packed up for an early ride home in the morning.  It was the best reunion ever!