Thursday, September 24, 2026

Thomas' Baptism (8.9.26)

Thomas turned eight on June 29, 2026.  He was baptized and confirmed a member of the LDS Church on August 9, 2026.  Thomas' baptism day was a big event.  Jenny said Thomas had been counting the days for a long time.  The Church baptismal font was full of warm water and the adjacent gathering room was full of family, Church leaders, and friends.  Everyone was there to honor Thomas and show  love for him!

Jonny baptized Thomas and, afterwards, confirmed him a member of the Church.  


I was flattered to be asked to give a talk. I pointed out to Thomas that Jesus was born into a family with a father and mother who loved him dearly and taught him how to be a wise, strong man.  Thomas was also born into a loving family, and Thomas can grow up to be a wise, strong man also, by following his parents' advice and Jesus' teachings. Jonny suggested I encourage Thomas to make good choices, and Jonny even sent me a list of good choices Thomas has made recently.  They included noticing a particularly enticing piece of bacon on the dinner plate of his little brother, J, but resisting the impulse to grab it!  Thomas is learning to share with his brothers and to be a good leader to his friends.  As a baptism gift, I gave Thomas the stuffed Husky dog that I brought back from Alaska and used as a centerpiece on my buffet table, when we had an Alaskan dinner.  The Husky dog mysteriously disappeared from the buffet and reappeared on the sofa downstairs where my grandchildren watch videos when the adult conversation gets too boring.  I love Thomas!



Getting Cultured with Sam and Henry (8.8.26)

Dave's and my Christmas gift from Jonny and Jenny each year is season tickets to Hale Theater.  We attend the performances with Sam and Henry, and we always have a great time.  We have attended Hale Theater with Sam and Henry for enough years to almost exhaust plays based on Jane Austen's books, one of which Hale Theater includes each year.  We've been amazed at how much the two boys have enjoyed  "Pride and Prejudice", "Emma", "Sense and Sensibility", and "Persuasion".  We may have "Northanger Abbey" and "Mansfield Park" yet to go!  Sam and Henry follow plot lines, understand jokes, and unravel themes like college English majors!  On August 8, 2026, we received another cultural injection as we enjoyed the French masterpiece, "Cyrano de Bergerac," together. We are looking forward to "To Kill a Mockingbird" later this fall.
 

Our 70's Cohort (8.4.26)

Deanne Wilde and Jane Jones were my bridesmaids, back in 1970.  Paul Emmer was Dave's best friend after his LDS mission, as the two of them worked as orderlies at LDS Hospital. Jane Jones and I were operating room technicians with Dave and Paul. Dave dated Deanne Wilde and was a member of the U of U ROTC with Bob Wilde. We merged into a couples group after Jane married Spencer Jones, who rode up the canyon on a bike at the age of 82, and Paul married Julie Emmer, who is as stylish and fun as a teenager, even in her 70s. We have so many memories and connections with these people, lasting more than fifty years.  It was a delight to get together at Deanne's familys cabin in Millcreek Canyon on August 4, 2026. (Left to right: the Spendloves, the Emmers, the Wildes, and the Joneses)
 
Deanne's cabin is nestled in the trees, several miles up Millcreek Canyon and a world away from Salt Lake City.  We ate a potluck dinner on a picnic table in the yard and then went inside the cabin to talk and talk and talk.  "I brought games," Deanne sighed, "but this group just likes to talk."  Deanne sent each of us home with a loaf of her homemade bread.

Wednesday, September 23, 2026

Pilgrimage to Casper (Casper, Wyoming 7.31.26)


 The main purpose of our drive to Casper, Wyoming, on July 31, 2026, was to visit the LDS Casper Temple.  However, there were lots of other fun things to do on the way.

Our first stop was Martin's Cove, where LDS handcart pioneers sheltered in 1856 when they were caught in blizzards while crossing the plains.
The landscape was beautiful in the summer, but it must have seemed terrifying covered in snow by a blizzard in the winter. As we drove along the freeway through Wyoming, we noted the various spots where there were gates that could block the roads in bad weather, and steel structures along the side of the road to hold back the snow.
There were many handcarts on the path at the Visitors Center.  Visitors can walk along the trails with one, to see what pulling a handcart feels like.  LDS Young Men and Young Women groups come to do handcart treks for several days.  All of our children took handcart treks when they were teenagers, and David took one, in his seventies, when he was an LDS bishop.
Inside the museum, I surveyed the exhibit showing what LDS pioneers typically took in their handcarts.  The weight was limited by their ability to pull a full cart.
Dave pointed out several ancestors who were part of the rescue company sent from Salt Lake City to find the handcart companies that were stranded on the plains in a blizzard.  My ancestor, John Bennion, was also part of the rescue party.
We looked for our friends, the McCulloughs, who are serving as missionaries at Martin's Cove, but they were assigned, when we visited, to a different area of the park.  The senior missionaries who manned the Visitors Center were all dressed as pioneers.


Casper has wonderful museums.  It is a great place for archeologists to discover dinosaur skeletons, since the area was once part of a shallow inland sea where dinosaurs died along the shore and were buried in protective mud. 


The museum showed not only dinosaur bones, but also bones of prehistoric mammals like mammoths.  As this map shows, mammoths once roamed most of North America.
A second interesting museum was the National Historic Trails Interpretive Center.  The Center educated us on the various pioneer trails that passed through Casper--the Mormon Trail, the Oregon Trail, and the California Goldrush Trail.
The museum also explained the Native American culture, including its dependence on the buffalo.

I enjoyed talking with a woman who kept alive the traditional pioneer craft of basketmaking.

We also visited Fort Caspar, built to manage the travelers along the trails, including providing stores and protection from Indian attacks.

It was near Ft. Caspar that LDS pioneers, in 1847, built a ferry for wagons to cross the North Platte River.  Brigham Young sent men back to Casper to man the ferry during future years to help Mormon pioneers to cross the North Platte.  The ferry generated income from charges to non-Mormon pioneers.

The Casper Temple was partially shut down because of problems with its air conditioning system.  We couldn't do a complete endowment session, but we did "initiatory ordinances" instead.  As I waited to begin the ordinances, I chatted with a woman criminal defense lawyer from Casper who was as offended by the present federal administration's assault on the U.S. Constitution as I have been.  She was as frustrated as I have been to live in a "red" state where people don't seem as concerned as I am by the assaults on judges and the rule of law.  It was an odd place to talk about divisive topics (very quietly), but heartwarming to find a kindred spirit! 
The symbols used in the Casper Temple include Indian paintbrush flowers and sagebrush.  Geometric patterns were inspired by regional Native American traditions.



The temple was filled with beautiful original paintings and prints, not just depicting Jesus Christ, but also depicting such local pioneer landmarks as Devil's Gate.

We took the backroads home to Salt Lake City, rather than retracing our steps along the freeway.  We passed herds of horses, farms, old trading posts and half-deserted mining towns,.

This sign marked the location of a trading post established in 1835 to trade with the Shoshoni Indians.
This sign marked the location of Atlantic City, a gold mining town that is moldering into the dust.


And there were many miles of austere but beautiful scenery like this.
We rejoined the freeway near Rock Springs for a 75 cent ice cream cone.  It was disheartening to find that Little America had demolished its hotel.  There is still a cafe, store, and gas station, but no possibility of spending a comfortable night far, far from city lights.


Grace Gretta (7.26.26)

It is an honor and a thrill to have one of my great-grandchildren named after me.  Grace Gretta Flindt, daughter of Spencer and Naomi Flindt, was given a name and a blessing at our house on July 26, 2026. Spencer and Naomi were visiting from Houston, and it was easiest to get Naomi's and Spencer's families together for the blessing in Salt Lake City.
The joy and pageantry of a baby blessing includes assembling all branches of the family.  In this picture, from left are Soren Flindt (cousin of Grace Gretta), his mother Rebekah Flindt (Grace Gretta's aunt), JoDee Flindt (great-grandmother of Grace Gretta), Jonny Spendlove (great-uncle of Grace Gretta), and Herb Flindt (great-grandfather of Grace Gretta).

Many of us were taking pictures, including Naomi's mother, Gigi (bottom of picture) and the person with the unidentified hand on the right side of the picture!.
Naomi's brother and father attended the blessing, as did Ellie and Logan Nielson, Spencer's and Naomi's close friends who now live in Utah.
Spencer's daughter Eliza and Michael K's daughter, Lily, sang "I Am a Child of God."  They are very feminine, very smart, very elfish, and very good friends, as well as cousins.
Naomi carefully tucked Grace Gretta into Spencer's arms, so Spencer could give her a name and a father's blessing.
As is traditional in LDS baby blessings, the men in the family formed a circle around Spencer as he gave the blessing, and gently lay their hands on the baby.
Grace with her proud father.

Holiness in Lindon (Lindon, Utah 7.25.26)

One of my goals is to visit ten LDS temples each year that I haven't visited before.  On July 25, 2026, Dave and I attended an endowment session in the new Lindon Temple. 

Lindon is a town in Utah County 37 miles south of Salt Lake City.  It is also the hometown of our beloved daughter-in-law, Naomi Flindt.  Naomi says the Lindon Temple is practically in her parents' backyard.  It is a luxury for an LDS person to live near a temple.  Property values around a new temple typically increase immediately.  Dave and I live within 15 minutes of the Salt Lake Temple, but during its seven year renovation, we drive half an hour to the Bountiful Temple.  We try to attend the temple at least once or twice per month. Still, our 30 minute drive to the Bountiful Temple is nothing compared to the treks that many devout LDS people in Asia, Europe, or the South Pacific make to  attend a temple.  Some members save up for a lifetime to take their families to the nearest temple.
LDS temples come in all sizes.  The smallest is in Colonia Juarez, Mexico, at approximately 6,000 square feet, and the largest is the Salt Lake Temple, which will be 382,207 square feet after the remodeling is done in 2027.  The Lindon Temple is one of the larger temples in the Church, at 81,000 square feet.

The high point of a temple session is visiting the Celestial Room, a beautiful and peaceful space where it is easy to contemplate and pray.  The Celestial Room represents heaven, where we hope to reunite as families some day.  Meeting family members in the Celestial Room after a temple session helps us imagine what it will be like, some day, to reunite with our entire families, including those who have died before us.
Many of the new LDS temples have high ceilings and tall staircases, and they virtually all have stained glass with symbols unique to each temple.  The town of Linden is named after the linden tree.  Linden flower blossoms, buds, leaves, vines, and trunks are detailed within the carpets, carved woodwork, stained-glass windows, and decorative ceiling paint.  Butterflies and sheaves of wheat, reminiscent of Lindon's farming heritage, are also included in the decoration.
The baptismal font in the Lindon Temple is particularly beautiful.